Do you have someone in
your life that doesn’t trust your judgment? One who feels they need to control every
aspect of your life. If you do, chances are that that someone is a control
freak.
My someone, like so many control freaks, has a high opinion
of himself. He is obsessive.He easily becomes agitated and will engage in long,
loud, and angry one-way arguments (whether there is a reason to be angry or
not) over any issue. He is not interested in what I have to say. He talks down
to me. He attempts to intimidate by rapidly and loudly talking over anything I
attempt to say. If I should be able to make a counterargument that in anyway
threatens his argument, he will shut down and not speak to me for days. It’s a
behavior demonstrate not just toward me but others as well.